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Dating, in real life

So, why are you single?

Insert facepalm! Hmmm – I don’t know if this is a good question or just annoying.  For the most part, my immediate reaction is annoyance.  But if I stop and think about it, there could be some depth to it. … Continue Reading →

Dating in Real Life; this is not about you…but if the shoe fits!

Whoa! Whoa! Whoa! It is always fascinating how guilt will creep in to those who hold it so easily.  What does that post mean, why would you write that, please explain!? Creativity and thoughts flow through me about as quickly… Continue Reading →

Talk the talk?! Nah, I would rather walk the walk.

You come in with a flash, speaking the words that any heart longs to hear. “Don’t you feel that!? It’s like magic!”  Is it him?  Finally, is it him? One that could be capable after all? Those were words that… Continue Reading →

"Put me in the game, coach"

  I am terrified to actually admit this, because then I have to do it, and for even more pressure to follow through, I decided to write about it.  What do I need to say out loud?! Well, to be direct… Continue Reading →

Kintsugi – you can call me Sugi

Kintsugi – is the Japanese art of mending broken things, filling the cracks with gold to restore its natural shape while strengthening the item.  
“it’s very important that we understand the spiritual backgrounds or the history behind… the material.” 
“to find beauties in broken things or old things,”
“It’s one beautiful way of living, that you fix [it] by yourself.”

Dating, in real life; let's start with a 90-day introductory trial.

So you fill out the application, knock the interview out of the park, land the job, and you’re feeling like everything is going right.  And your first day on the job you hear the, “Welcome!  Today starts your 90-day introductory/probationary… Continue Reading →

Dating in real life… make it stawp!

Seriously.  This is a good example of what not to do.  I do not think I have any single girlfriends, and some married ones too, that this has not happened to, by some creep.   Just WHYYYYYYAAAAA?! 2015, 2016, 2017…… Continue Reading →

Summer lovin; how seeing young love can remind us to be better.

A boy asked his mom, “How will I be able to find the right woman for me?”  The mom answered, “Don’t worry about finding the right woman, concentrate on becoming the right man.” My (not so) little boy has a… Continue Reading →

The last time, was the last time. I swear.

I promised that I would never again be with a man that made me question his loyalty. And when I say “made me” I mean being with someone who deliberately pushes the trust boundaries, creates or partakes in situations that… Continue Reading →

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