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I want you to know that you are not alone.

I know it is said over and over. But we truly, really are not. In this right to know, everything, right now society, the missing piece is how similar we all are in all of the subjects that are slowly… Continue Reading →

Pain is personal

Four years ago I became aware of a local organization fighting against domestic violence called Samaritan House.  I had survived my own traumas in an abusive relationship as many of you know,  and so I accepted the invitation to an… Continue Reading →

UM-musings. To be unbothered by the storm

The sky is not bothered with a passing storm… it’s vastness and beauty unmarked by even the most ferocious tempers of the weather… it just remains, being the sky. You are a force to be reckoned with.  A vast sky… Continue Reading →

The hardest part of loving you, is letting go

Practicing non-attachment in life is mostly healthy. The less we attach ourselves to an idea, a person, a thing the less pain there can be if it ceases to be in our lives, basically. Trying it with our children, however…… Continue Reading →

Love her more because of me, from the man stuck in between.

I hope I made you love her more. I hope you see that your second chance broke me. I hope that you don’t take it for granted. I hope she has prepared herself that you will. I hope I gave… Continue Reading →

I wish I could show you.

I wish I could show you, when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being. -Hafiz This is one of my favorite quotes.  The rest I wrote for you and then when I was finished… Continue Reading →

UM-musings

Be humble about what you know.  Do not be over-confident about what you know.  It’s not yours.  You learned it from someone else.  And any intellectual talents you may have, are gifts.  Any inherent wisdom you have is also a… Continue Reading →

UM-musings

Live out of your imagination, not your history. Steven Covey This one so resonates for me.  Telling my stories, helping others, sharing pain and traumas can keep you living in those past places if you are not careful.  I mantra… Continue Reading →

My two cents; spanking that unruly child.

Children who have been exposed to any type of violence in their family show the same pattern of activity in their brains as combat soldiers. Before I begin my thoughts on spanking I want express that this is not a… Continue Reading →

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