Would the fight of today be worth it, if it all ended tomorrow? If it holds hate or negativity in your heart, say no and let it go. Ask yourself, if you can be honest, "will I be proud of this in 6 months? Will I want this act, or this behavior to define me? Will I be better and wiser for it? Am I okay with leaving this mark on the world?" Every single experience is a teacher if you take a step back and pay attention. To surrender to life, accept peace and love in your heart and soul, and learn from the lessons... that is real clarity. And to see your life clearly, that is true bliss. Live it!